Osati ndendende kuwombera kwabwino, koma osati lingaliro loipa. Zinandikumbutsa za kugonana kwanga ndi mkazi wanga tili achichepere. Chilichonse chinalinso chaudongo komanso mosamala. Chomvetsa chisoni kuti sanajambule mapeto, momwe mnyamatayo adalowera mkati mwa mtsikanayo.
Ndi momwe mungasilire awiri a iwo. Munthu wakuda anasangalatsidwa ndi mtsikana wokongola, wopangidwa bwino ndi pakamwa pake. Ndipo mtsikanayo adagonana ndi mnzake wokongola komanso wosakhutira, yemwe adapeza penapake kuti aike bolt yake.